Does this work with husbands or boyfriends?

When things aren't going good or we have a fight he is the one to ';pull away'; I'm the one that wants to talk and fix things. In our 2 yrs of being together I've always been the one who can't stand being mad at eachother, I can't go more than a day like that. Will it bring him back around if I hold out and don't try to ';fix'; things? I'm afraid he'll pull away for good.Does this work with husbands or boyfriends?
If he does you really haven't lost much. Both parties have got to work at making a marriage or relationship work.Does this work with husbands or boyfriends?
Hun this is how most men are they don't like to argue we call it talking they call it bitching. Learn to live with the differences them walking away means it's over the argument is forgotten. We are the ones who believe you have to talk it out and come to a conclusion most men think lets just agree to disagree. There's nothing wrong with you going to him just don't keep bringing the argument up they don't like that move on. I know you may say it at a nice tone and what have you but if you go there they take it as you are still arguing.
that's the only way to find out the truth. marriage is a compromise.
It doesn't work, all it will do is make him more stand offish and want to try and ';prove his point'; by going longer until you break.





Find a way to get across to him so that he'll understand how deep your concerns are about the relationship and then he'll start to come around if he loves you enough that it hurts him to see you hurting.












Playing games doesn't work well in the long run. Many men don't like to talk things through... but if you are a person who needs to 'fix' things...you might start looking around for someone who appreciates your style. He's not likely to change. Good luck!
My ex was a lot like you - he always wanted to talk and 'fix' things, drove me nuts because sometimes I just wanted some space. Nothing wrong with having a row, but there are times when it just doesn't need to be analysed.





Give him some space - he will talk again, and probably will have forgotton what the row was about!
Try it...and if he ';pulls away for good';...do you really want that kind of a relationship? If he loves you...he will do his best to fix things...otherwise, you might want to start looking elsewhere.
A relationship built on fear is a relationship doomed to fail. Hun communication is the key to a successful relationship, if my ex husband was honest and open, we'd still be together. I'm now in a relationship where we talk a lot, work things out. Its healthy, if your man leaves then he wasnt' ment to be!

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