Would this work. there is a girl i fancy at college, she works there. who is really shy. the college has a?

small canteen area. if i offered to make a drink would she like that. i am not implying that i want her to sit and a drink with me. i am implying if it would be ok to ask her if she wants one to take into the office were she works. i am trying to get her to relax and break her out of this shyness. if a girl who liked me, noticed i was chatting to another girl, would that make her want to talk to me. i've heard that girls hate it when their man talks to other women.Would this work. there is a girl i fancy at college, she works there. who is really shy. the college has a?
Dude,Strategies NEVER work with women.


Just do what comes naturally.Talk to her,find out about her,what she likes doing,where she likes going.


I know it's difficult when a girl is ';shy'; but it's normally the shy ones that are the filthiest!So it's worth it.


Trust me.Would this work. there is a girl i fancy at college, she works there. who is really shy. the college has a?
I so agree with E, you have to talk to her find out what she likes try to get to know her but at the same time get her know you as well. Good luck
The best way around this is to first find out what the score is before you go charging in and make a fool of yourself, the best plan of attack (sorry ladies) is through one of her friends.





Just say ';can i ask you about your friend?';, find out her name, and ask her friend if she's single.


you wouldn't really need to do anything else after that, just sit back and wait a day or two because either she's going to tell you that's she has a boyfriend and/or sure as damn it go and tell the girl you asked about her.





It opens a doorway for you, there then might be a look, a smile or her completely blanking you and so you know where you stand.


I'd be surprised if the friend didn't come back to you and give you some sort of feedback, you could even ask if the girl said anything about you such as she might be interested.





Yes, by all means you can pile in and go for it but catching her off guard in an uncomfortable situation could kill it dead straight away for you.





Test the water, sow the seeds and see what happens.





If it all dies a death, go for the friend you've been chatting to.lol
yeah go get her a drink i cant see anything wrong with that apart from the fact that you ain't done it already. and don't try the jealousy thing, it could seriously backfire in your face.
Only one way to find out. But if you like her and you talk to other women, that will only turn her off and give her mixed signals.